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The Harm caused by Selfish Games with People for Fun

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 Many people want to have fun at other's expense and sell any claim to make the other person believe something is true. The person who sells the lie and convinces the other person that what they are saying is the truth always has the upper hand and can control and command any outcome or action that they want. Everyone is searching for things and people to rely on and players who want to have fun at other people's expense will never stop playing people as they get a kick out of making a fool out of the other person or making money out of that communication exchange. At the end of the day everyone is looking for some form of control. A person who wants excessive control or power over another person will feel accomplished by making their targets feel insecure or scramble or struggle over simple things.  These are the sports and games being played by people in the world and you can either become the pawn or take control over the game being played with your own life.  When the...

Trust is the most valuable commodity in 2025

When a man wants the physical he becomes like an animal. He doesn’t care about who he demands the physical from; it could be anyone. Cheating husbands never allow mistresses to call them. They never keep their promises to their mistresses coz they had to be a husband to their wife. Their conscience pricks them when they think about their kids. They would treat the mistress like an object and promise things which would make the mistress happy but never do what they say. They just wanted the physical and after they got what they wanted, they would go back to their wife and kids and text their mistress when they wanted more of the physical. Another clue is that they don’t introduce the mistress to their family. They will keep their mistress in secret and will promise to introduce her, but he never will. In places like the arab countries, men are rich and openly have 2 or three wives and every wife is comfortable about being One of his girls.  Men have a way of compartmentalizing every...

Integrating new systems into existing norms

 There's an old saying - if you continue to do what you always do, you will continue to get the same results that you always get. Slow integration of new methods and styles will make something new that seems complex from a distance, do-able and the new norm, which may even make your life simpler, easier and more fun.

How to handle conflict while facilitating sessions with conflicting views

Listen to both sides of the argument and to the opposing goals and empower and acknowledge each side, equally. Establish some ways in which both teams can depend on each other to facilitate each other's goals and drive solution-focused conversations. If the narrative becomes conflicting, bring it back to center around the solution.

My thoughts on the use of Storyboards in Educational Technology

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Storyboard creation helps to chalk out a plan for the video which helps all the stakeholders during development as well as the Quality Analysis (QA) team to map the plan and purpose of the animation to the al result. Storyboards also include the voice over(VO) script which is an input to VO artists to record the script. A more specific storyboard helps all stakeholders to visualise the final product, the exact way that the instructional designer/writer intended it to be. A more detailed storyboard can help clear doubts and conflicts, at later stages of the development process.                           

Music Teacher on Forte

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A Post about Con-Experts

How long must a fool suffer before (s)he realises that (s)he is being conned? Everything that a con-expert does is to ensure that (s)he gets maximum out of the victim. Con-experts will not call you or accept your calls unless it's about something you're doing for them and their work or the task that they have assigned the victim. Everything is about what they can get from the victim. They have leadership qualities as well as persuasion skills to sell ice to an Eskimo and then some more. They enjoy conning people over and over again multiple times, the same way, because their victims did not learn a lesson the first time, or could not say no. They use emotional trickery such as love to entice victims to believing what they are saying and then use them to whatever means they need and then let them go. It's not easy being in the company of a manipulator and resisting their advances. They have so much of self knowledge of themselves and how they can use their gifts to trample o...

My views on Goa becoming the tourist capital of the country being published in the papers

I think it is a fabulous vision statement by the CM to make Goa the tourist capital of the country.  This vision will lead to more employment of localites in goa, increase cultural events and also enhance careers of entertainers, producers, stage and event technicians. It will boost the local economy and boost goa's popularity, internationally and improve overall welfare and lifestyle of localites.

My Views on a Multitude of Apps being Introduced into the Universe

In the new global digital world, consumers are faced with a sea of choice of apps to use and download. I think companies should analyse which apps would more value to the consumers life and not just add to the sea. They should also phase out some of their own apps which are outdated so as to help make consumers make a better choice on which is the most updated and appropriate app to use. Simultaneously, due to the increase in the number of apps, consumers are forced to invest in more powerful (more expensive) devices to support usage of the growing number of apps. The common middle class and lower-middle class families may not be able to afford such expensive devices. Creators, innovators and designers should keep in mind the long term and effects and results of the technology being designed while innovating and investing. This will ensure that the creators of technology, apps and software and the users (customers) are on the same page. Human interaction can never be completely replace...

Silence is a Crippler

I can't deal with people's silence. Especially, the people I love  It complicating and nullifying all the time I spent with them . I try my best to be genuine and say what I mean and mean what I say. Unfortunately there are very few genuine people left on this planet. I'm either all in or all out. I don't do in between. I am a hardcore empath.

Pettiness Leads Nowhere

Lost a lot of friends to the pandemic But, it still beats me how a global pandemic didn't make people who survived it realise that pettiness leads nowhere and that life is too short to not love and care for each other. If people are still bullying, ignoring and intending to trample on people's feelings or cause confusion, they haven't yet learned their lesson from this very tough period. # sherise # girlwithapositiveboldvoice # musicandhealing # harshrealities

Knocking on an old familiar door 🚪

Some old doors that you knock on can be a complete waste of time because they lead to NULL. System crashes happen when pograms execute and throw NULL POINTER EXCEPTIONS.  Similarly, when you chase a job that no longer recognises your efforts, a person that no longer sees your worth, a long lost friend, a relative (keep calling them, knocking on their door, and they just behave difficult and don't respond, that doesn't make you desperate.  In fact, saying exactly what's on your mind, makes you authentic. You see the value in that relation, but they don't. So what do you do? Just let them know that you don't intend on playing games, and if it's a lost cause, then you will surely let go and move on. However, if there is a sign of hope somewhere, you can try to pursue it at your own risk. But be preapred to be ignored again. Because difficult people are difficult. It's a norm for them to take the easy way out for themselves and make someone else's life diffi...

Rejection

 Constantly being rejected is not good for health . Its actually toxic. I don't know about others, but, in the past whenever I have been rejected, I became very depressed and it impacted my work and took a lot out of me to bounce back and regain my energy. When you kill someone's spirit with negativity they have no other way to turn but give in and kill all the good things which includes love, belief and sometimes even themselves. If I had to listen and take to heart all the things people "revealed" about me, (because people's opinions of me are my kryptonite; I take everything they say, seriously) I probably would have been so ashamed of myself and  I wouldn't want to show my face to the world or I wouldn't even want to fall in love again and my self esteem would be extremely low. Thankfully, I trained myself to spot and tackle with negativity, repressive and regressive behaviour. 

You are what you think I am

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 There are some people who come into your life and you wonder what you ever did to deserve the hatred they doled out to you. Its not about being a victim, it's about being on the recieving end and not knowing how to respond, when a stone gets thrown at you. Should you change yourself? Try to change the outcome or try to change the other person or their opinion of you? I have tried all of these things and failed. Change is not always the answer. Silence and pauses cause more damage sometimes, as we dont know what the other person is thinking. Here I am trying to find a solution, while the other person is calculating the nature of the next stone to throw. Again, it's not about being a victim, but about knowing what to do and how to react to stone-throws. We are truly how we think of others. If I think of the other person as the enemy, then I actually have made myself into an enemy and not them. If I think that someone is not attracted to me, I may not be attractive. On the other ...

Negativity vs. Time Healing All Wounds

Time is the best teacher. Time heals all wounds and opens all eyes 👁️ without any interference.  If you think the same things you always thought, you will get the same things you always got. When you kill someone's spirit with negativity and toxic behaviour, they have no other way to turn but give in and die to all the good things which includes love, belief and sometimes even themselves. There is a way out - train yourself to spot and tackle with negativity, repressive and regressive behaviour. Try to change toxic people for the better, but don't get caught up in their negativity and don't let your positivity get plucked out of you!😺🦋🎈

Too Much 🧲

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I notice that I tend to repress happiness when it gets too much for me to handle, and then I withdraw. A part of being happy is knowing how to handle sometimes too much happiness, too much attraction, too much attention as well as too much sadness, and trusting that it will stabilize and turn to equilibrium without having to repress, put myself or others down or punish myself/ others for mistakes or for responding well to me. I'm learning to build from every moment and from everything I recieve; so what if it didn't happen the first time the way I wanted it to - I build from that: every breath, every moment matters...I have only the best intentions; and I would do my best! Everyone can see my journey and progression along with the mistakes I made; because being real and genuine matters at the end of the day. I was never a one hit, overnight wonder. Things take time and energy and I love the process more than the result. ❤️✨

If the Mountain Seems Too Big Today.....

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If the mountain seems too big today  then climb a hill instead; If morning brings you sadness  it’s okay to stay in bed.  If the day ahead feels heavy and your plans feel like a curse,  There’s no shame in rearranging,  don’t make yourself feel worse. If a shower stings like needles  and a bath feels like you’ll drown; If you haven’t washed your hair for days,  don’t throw away your crown! A day is not a lifetime. A rest is not defeat. Don’t think of it as failure, Just a quiet, kind retreat.  It’s okay to take a moment From an anxious, fractured mind. The world will not stop turning While you get realigned! The mountain will still be there When you want to try again You can climb it in your own time, Just love yourself till then!                                              ...

Wounded Soldier

Breaking dawn with fire in her soul, She makes another day go by. Looking onward to the sky, As she feels her beating heart weaving breaths of gold, Battling demons yet another day, Yielding sometimes only to ask for more pain When the day will come, She prays to use her gifts for purpose When will the night burn bright with happiness she yearns to provide. All that she sees is another wound on her side. Carrying her burdened shoulders she awakens to another dawn, Listening to the same songs and hoping to catch her next ride.

A Small Game I created - Treats for You

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Please Check Out My Music.. Like.. Share and Subcribe

I have grown as an artist since I first started this blog. One of the main areas that I have grown in is Music. Do check out my work on my website! Cheers! Please do write back if you like what you see or hear. Love always XOXOXOXO, Sherise P.S.: Youtube... . How could I forget..  Here is the link:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_0fhLs8LfK7QiTkgnqj4ww