A Post about Con-Experts

How long must a fool suffer before (s)he realises that (s)he is being conned? Everything that a con-expert does is to ensure that (s)he gets maximum out of the victim. Con-experts will not call you or accept your calls unless it's about something you're doing for them and their work or the task that they have assigned the victim. Everything is about what they can get from the victim. They have leadership qualities as well as persuasion skills to sell ice to an Eskimo and then some more. They enjoy conning people over and over again multiple times, the same way, because their victims did not learn a lesson the first time, or could not say no. They use emotional trickery such as love to entice victims to believing what they are saying and then use them to whatever means they need and then let them go. It's not easy being in the company of a manipulator and resisting their advances. They have so much of self knowledge of themselves and how they can use their gifts to trample on others to get what they want, that the victim is left speechless. Con-experts will never lift a finger to satisfy their victims. If they do, it is because they had some spare time from their main responsibilities. If you are in a relationship with a con-artist, beware, because he/she will try to inflict as much damage as possible. Con-people are expert mind-games and make it a point to use the weak for their strategies. Narcissistic people mostly turn into con-peope. Everything will appear as if it's normal because con-experts are experts at day-light trickery and day-light robbery. I just thought of the phrase - 'pros and cons'. There is a reason why a con-man is a 'con'. Victims, if they succeed to get out of a con-person's clutches, becomes a 'pro'. The victim needs to learn the patters and ways of the con-expert to successfully manoeuver his/her way out and avoid destruction before it arrives because con-experts only create destruction in their wake. This is because con-experts and narcissists are damaged souls who could not find or see the light after their hardships. They are not at peace with themselves and are confused about their choices. Their own internal damage is reflected in their actions and interactions with others. They inflict damage because that's how they justify the hurt that's been done to them. So, they pay it forward. They don't know how to end the cycle. Con-men don't know one very simple and important thing - Ultimately, everything fades away, that's life. This is one thing that Pros understand and can use that to defend themselves from selfish Cons. Pros know that con-ners can only get worldly things from them. The world is temporary. Everything that has been achieved by cons is also going to fade away and is not permanent. On the other hand, the pro has sacrificed and will be blessed by the universe. This is how the universe works.

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